Have you ever found yourself saying – “This is spectacular!” and even genuinely loving it – but not being able to live with it or perhaps wear it? Interior design, fashion design, architecture…we know good design when we see it. We have an appreciation for the creativity, impact, look and feel of a space, but it might not be something or someplace where we would like to spend a lot of time, much less live. “A nice place to visit, but you wouldn’t want to live there.” Ever feel that way?
Then there’s “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” And that certainly is true as each person has their own reaction to, or opinion about, design and relative and various interpretations of beauty.
Yet walking into a room and saying “Wow” and having a smile come across your face is an involuntary response to the positive visual impact. To be objective, this is imperative – yet it is very subjective too.
I am currently designing for a couple who have very colorful ideas about their interior design. We touched on this the other day when she said that her mother would probably do an eye roll when she gets to see the finished product in person. It would not be her choice. It would not be her “taste.” I stated, with encouragement, that she would surely appreciate the fabulous design of it all – perhaps just not want her interior to make same statement. Fair.
Taste. I had a teacher once tell us “There is no such thing as bad taste, just bad design.” My point is that you often can appreciate good design without necessarily wanting it for yourself- and, you should. Like viewing a runway model – a spectacular design might be something that you genuinely appreciate, but might not necessarily want to own or wear. You should be able to separate recognizing good design and not correlate it to your personal taste. Be objective – separate the two – good design and your preference in design.
Does it function well? Does it perform well for its purpose? Is it effective? And then there’s the “wow” factor. It’s exciting to see good design and have that reaction. You do NOT have to want it for yourself to acknowledge the fact that it works, elicits a positive response and represents good design.
If neutrals make you comfortable and bring you peace and joy, bold layers of colors with many patterns might just not be your cup of tea. But allowing yourself the freedom to “get it,” is liberating. Knowing that you don’t have to want it, in order to validate it, is a relief – no?
So don’t be afraid to like a variety of things or appreciate a broad range of designs, because nobody is going to judge you for your keen appreciation. You don’t have to love it or leave it you can love it and leave it. Have fun exploring good design – it’s all around.
Nice distinction. Thanks!